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Joel |
Quick question |
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10/18/02 06:50 |
Have you ever gone into an ashtray and smoked one of yours or even another person's burned down cigarette butt because you carelessly ran out of
cigarettes?
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It's a question I ask at all my clinics. Usually between one half to three quarters of the group has gone for their own butts, and about one quarter has
smoked other people's used partially smoked cigarettes. While it may not seem totally disgusting at the time, in retrospect the act often forces the
ex-smoker to recognize just what kind of grip nicotine had on him or her at one time to make him or her resort to such a desperate act. It then can serve as
a reminder of just how much control cigarettes once exerted on the person and how he or she never wants to be in the grip of nicotine's control again. To
avoid ever being controlled by nicotine in the future is as simple as knowing to never take another puff!
Joel
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smokefreeJD Gold |
Quick question | #1 | ||
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10/18/02 06:55 |
Yes and yes... I've smoked butts from my father's ashtrays when I ran out of cigarettes. Even though he knew I smoked we never talked about it and I
never smoked in front of him. In fact I went to all lengths to hide it from him as if I was a teenager again. So if I was visiting and ran out and
couldn't think of an excuse for me to have to "go to the store for something" then I would smoke one of his out of the ashtray. He had a habit
of taking 4 or 5 puffs from a cigarette and then putting it out, but he never smashed the thing up completely. Very disgusting.
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IrishLotus GOLD |
Quick question | #2 | ||
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10/18/02 07:00 |
Well, I would have pulled out my OWN butts, but when I was smoking I would make sure to get every bit of tobacco out of it...didn't want to
"waste" it (they are expensive little devils
I have chosen not to smoke for 3 Weeks 3 Days 8 Hours 59 Minutes 50 Seconds. Cigarettes not smoked: 731. Money saved: $182.81.
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clactwicegold |
Quick question | #3 | ||
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10/18/02 07:03 |
'Didn't even know who's butts I was smoking. Don't suppose I cared either.
Wont be doing that again though!
Clac xxx
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Roma Bronze |
Quick question | #4 | ||
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10/18/02 07:06 |
Yes to smoking my own and other people's cig butts
Yikes!
~Roma healing for 3months
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El Bob Gold |
Quick question | #5 | ||
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10/18/02 07:11 |
Dear Joel,
I had no butts as I smoked roll-up tobacco rather than cigarettes (but it's easy
to use the 'cigarette' word in one's stats).
This is a very popular way of smoking in the British Isles as it is genurally
cheaper to buy than packets of cigarettes, but it is far worse, really, as there is no filter to stop any of the chemicals making their way to your lungs.
Also, you smoke them right down to your fingers and end up with yellow, trampy-looking fingers, which do not look pleasant at any time!
However, if I was out of tobacco I'd smoke whatever I could get my hands on,
even cigarettes I normally found absolutely disgusting to the taste, such as Camels. I would never do that with a substitute for drink or food!
El Bob
1 Month 1 Week 1 Day and 1 Great Quit!
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Parker GOLD |
Quick question | #6 | ||
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10/18/02 07:14 |
Good Heavens...NO! I never did that because I carelessly ran out of cigarettes. What are you thinking?! Excuse me, but I was
very organized about feeding my addiction and made sure I did not run out of cigarettes.
I only picked up my husband's burned down, crushed out, smelly cigarette butts out of ashtrays because I had
quit smoking. Clearly having 1 or 2 puffs every day was not going to hurt me! The fact that I began buying them again and smoked another, oh say, 35,000
- 40,000 before I quit 133 days ago is surely unrelated to those puffs.
Parker - now educated thanks to Joel and Freedom
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improud (golder) |
Quick question | #7 | ||
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10/18/02 07:18 |
yes
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GoldenPeachyPie |
Quick question | #8 | ||
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10/18/02 07:32 |
Yes I've rooted through a rubbish bag, and smoked butts ( or dog ends as we call them in the UK,) that were covered in yucky stuff like yoghurt,and I
didn't even KNOW whose they were.
Then I kissed my kids goodnight. Nice.
Peach XX
19 DAYS OF NOT DOING THAT ANYMORE!!
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Bart (Bronze) |
Quick question | #9 | ||
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10/18/02 07:42 |
Once when I ran out late one night at home, I went one step further than just smoking a used cig. I had to dig through my kitchen trash first to find some
previously smoked butts -- and all of them were buried within food, coffee grounds, etc (yuck). I used my lighter to dry them out before I smoked them. I
could of went and bought another pack--but that would of taken too long...
Bart
1 week 4 days
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MareBear GOLD |
Quick question | #10 | ||
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10/18/02 08:20 |
Gasp! I never, ever, ever ran out of cigarettes. Ever. I always carried a spare pack in my purse just in case,
and my previous failures were always helped by my having a few cigarettes hidden in various places, just in case.
Duh!
MareBear
Not a puff for: 4M 2W 6D 14h 35m 26s. Cigarettes not smoked: 2852, saving me $470.61. Life Saved: 1W 2D 21h 40m.
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smokefreeJD Gold |
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10/18/02 08:44 |
About a month ago I was in Philadelphia for training. The "smoking" group would rush down 8 floors to the outside during our 10 minute breaks and
start lighting up, sometimes chain smoking. A few times while we're standing there hacking in between marvelling at how beautiful the day was... this
homeless man would make his rounds to the huge ashtrays and start digging for choice butts. Looking back... that man was doing no different than what I did
with my father's ashtrays.
Thanks for this thread Joel, reading about all this and knowing I'm not the only one who did it but didn't "look at it that way" really
helps me keep going.
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IrinaGold2 |
Quick question | #12 | ||
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10/18/02 08:47 |
Oh, yes, definitely
Glad not to be doing this anymore for 8 weeks 3 days 17 hours
1,492 cigarettes not smoked
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BearcatGOLD |
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10/18/02 09:10 |
Thanks for asking this question Joel, it really makes a person think about how disgusting the entire situation is.
I was so addicted, I don't recall ever running out of cigarettes. When I was a teenager, my mom would actually give me money for them if I didn't
have any money.
As an adult, I was totally under control of the Nicodemon. Nicotine demanded that I live in an area where I would feel safe to go to the store at 3:00 a.m.
if need be to get more. I was never far from a store if I did run out. If I didn't have money on me, there was always a charge card.
It is awful to think about the control of a drug.
Thanks for making me think about this,
Jen
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SkyDawg Gold |
Quick question | #14 | ||
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10/18/02 09:21 |
Thanks Joel,
I was a little worried about making people feel bad when I started the parade asking them to bring up their old posts when they were struggling with the
early stages of a quit. You have completely relieved me of any guilt for doing that
Ok, yes sorta. Probably did that a LOOOOONG time ago, but in more recent years I have been more careful not to run out. The most recent kinda sorta did
that thing I can remember is getting a cig off the floor of my car (ok, it was under the seat). Now, this was not just one I dropped there the day before.
It had probably been there for many months, if not more than a year. Boy did it taste bad!!. Did I smoke the whole thing? Oh yeah.
Thanks Joel for making me feel proud. Jeeeeeeeeeeez.
Tim (AKA SkyDawg)
Who IS PROUD that he hasn't smoked a stinky, stale, half used, dirty, cigarette butt for 1 month, 5 days, etc etc.
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SandyBob GOLD |
Quick question | #15 | ||
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10/18/02 10:11 |
UGH!
Yes, Joel. I've been there and done that. Both my own butts and others! I cringe now when I walk past ash trays with half smoked butts. I is quite
the reminder for me to acknowledge where I have come from. I is so disgusting to think about now. Damn, that addiction made us do some pretty disgusting
things! I guess we must remember, for if we forget, we may return.
SandyBob
4months+
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misledfairy |
Quick question | #16 | ||
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10/18/02 10:34 |
Love Naymor xxxx
6m 2w
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misledfairy |
Quick question | #17 | ||
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10/18/02 10:38 |
P.S. When I think now of how yellow/brown the already used filters were on the butt's I'd scavenged, and would still
put it in my mouth and light it up.......now that is revolting,
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Joanne Gold |
Quick question | #18 | ||
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10/18/02 11:52 |
Yes, my own. Cigarettes became too expensive to waste.
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GrumpyOMrsS (Gold) |
Quick question | #19 | ||
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10/19/02 04:03 |
Joel....knowing me, do you honestly think that I could reach into a dirty ashtray, pick up a
disgusting cigarette butt and then put it in my mouth and smoke it?
Well, I would never allow myself to run out of cigarettes. But when I was trying to quit and was even wearing the patch, I would
scrounge around the break room at work and look for a butt that still had a few "good" puffs left. I really didn't care who they had belonged
to. I waited until no one was around and then picked them up and finished them. Nicotine is nicotine is nicotine and truthfully, most of us addicts, well
when we wanted it, or as we know it now, we "needed" it, we would stoop to any level to get it.
Linda..
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Jordan(Silver) |
Quick question | #20 | ||
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10/19/02 05:19 |
Joel,
I smoked my own that were left in ashtrays. Never anyone else's. Usually I always ran quickly to the store for more. Gosh what stress I was under back
then! Always planning ahead so I would'nt run out. Going crazy if I did run out. Searching the ashtrays in the house and even in my car if I
could'nt get to the store quick enough! Geez. And even (like Skydawg) finding a stray cigarette or two under the seat of the car. I thought I was the
only one who did these things!
Sincerely,
Gena (green)
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