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Rayne |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #21 | ||
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Every day I find another thread here that reinforces my quit. I am still so new but I feel like I have learned so much allready. this thread is one of the
best I have read yet . Awsome
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #22 | ||
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forza d animo |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #23 | ||
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Beware the temptation to demonize tobacco, to give a personality or a purpose to your addiction - It has no agenda and can not think, "It has an IQ of
zero." There is no one who lives inside of you trying to get you to smoke except you.
All of the ideas set forth in John Polito's essay lay bare the denial, the lies and the misconceptions we had and others have about why they smoke and
why they can not quit. But it can be done. We have proven it. Education is the key, not creating a mythological demon that we must chastise to keep at bay
or that we must slay. It is a physiological change that we must come to accept and with which we must learn to live.
On any given day, whether we are free for one day or 1000 days, we can create a craving from a thought. We only have to caress the thought and to nurture
it. Often we wonder, "Why now?" and do not realize that we reacted to the thought in such a manner that encouraged it to persist and to grow.
That is not the result of any demon living within us. It is an example of how much power we have over our own ability to heal or not.
Read my friends, and grow.
Joseph
2 years 6 months.
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #24 | ||
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JoeJFree Gold |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #25 | ||
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4. It reduces my stress and helps calm me down - It's a lie.
15. It's my choice and I choose to smoke! - It's a lie and you know it!
28. I'll cut down or quit and smoke just one now and then
30. Ok, I'm going to quit! Now I can enjoy my smokes until then! - If you've done this more than once, isn't it just more
junkie head games ?
Whatever the denial justification, blame transference, or self-deceit you can come up with it has been covered by all of us and then
some. We're all addicts too. We've told ourselves these lies too. It's time to come clean. It's time to be honest with ourselves.
It's time to take control ......by making and keeping a personal pledge to live in control and free by staing nicotine free - naturally - for the rest
of today. NTAP.
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forza d animo |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #26 | ||
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4. It reduces my stress and helps calm me down - It's a lie. When we experience stress it makes our urine become more acidic. As the
stressed smoker's urine turns acidic it causes the nicotine in their blood to be metabolized and removed at an accelerated rate. The more stressed the
smoker becomes the quicker their blood nicotine level drops. The stressed smoker's rapidly declining blood nicotine level causes them to begin
experiencing the discomfort of early nicotine withdrawal. It is here that the stressed smoker says, "I NEED A CIGARETTE!" Within seconds after
smoking, their blood nicotine level rises, the anxieties associated with early nicotine withdrawal subside, and the nicotine addict is left with the false impression that smoking helped reduce their stress and calm them down. All
non-smokers experience stress in life. The difference is that non-smokers don't have early nicotine withdrawal amplifying their stress. Rising and
falling nicotine levels keep all smokers on a life-long anxiety filled roller-coaster ride. In truth, stress nicotine depletion causes smokers to experience
far more anxiety than non-smokers.
12. Dad just died, this isn't the time! - Smoking won't bring dad back nor cure any other ill in life. Success in quitting during
a period of high stress in life insures that future high stress situations won't serve as your excuse or justification for relapse. If you think about
it, if we continue to live we will all see someone we love die. Such is the cycle of life. It's extremely sad but serious illness, injury, or the death
of a loved one are the most convincing justifications that quitters sell themselves on, in order to justify keeping their drug. There is no better time to
quit than before your next mandatory feeding. Don't allow finances, work, illness, education or relationships to serve as your excuse to remain an
active addict. There is no legitimate justification for ever putting nicotine back into our body - none, zero, never!
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #27 | ||
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But the craves last for hours! - Just like the lingering thought of a nice juicy steak, lobster in butter sauce, or fresh baked hot apple pie, you can make yourself "think" about having a cigarette all day long, if that's what you really want to do. Unlike thoughts, crave anxiety attacks last for less than 3 minutes. It's important that you look at a clock and time them as your mind can make those minutes seem like hours. The bulk of the anxiety surrounding each crave is self induced. Such "thoughts" can be controlled with honest answers and through the power of positive thinking. Strip away all the self-inflicted anxiety and what remains on Day 3 for the "average" quitter is just 18 minutes of true crave anxiety (an average of six craves each less than three minutes in duration). |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #28 | ||
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I can't quit alone. I'll need nicotine gum, the patch, hypnosis, acupuncture, magic herbs or other wonder drugs! - Wrong! The simple truth is that no magic cure has ever "made" any smoker quit smoking nicotine. The key to permanent abstinence is education and understanding not hypnosis, not acupuncture and not a 93% chance of relapsing with six months while using some over-the-counter nicotine product that teaches nothing while robbing you of a valuable opportunity to master the core principles underlying years of nicotine dependency. Remember, should all else fail, you always have you! |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #29 | ||
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I tried quitting but my family stopped supporting me or was giving me such a hard time that it caused me to throw in the towel - It's a lie. You gave up because you used your family as a cheap excuse to get your drug back. You exaggerated everything they did or didn't do. You're the drug addict yet you expect them to understand the weakness and thinking of a drug addict's mind. How could they know what it's like to go through chemical withdrawal themselves? Is it fair to expect them to appreciate the magnitude or duration of your challenge? They just want you to be normal and don't know how to react. Feeling unappreciated, picking fights and creating confrontation are tools of the addict's mind used to reclaim their drug. Some know that if they inflict tremendous stress on loved ones that they may even convince them to offer to buy their relapse cigarettes for them. That way they can blame their relapse on their loved one. "They just couldn't handle my quitting." "Maybe next time!" |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #30 | ||
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It's one of my few pleasures in life - Does that mean that it's better than the pleasure of having a throat to deliver fresh air and great food, two lungs with which to laugh, a healthy heart to feel love, or an undamaged mind which dreams of a wonderful tomorrow? Pleasure from your addiction or pleasure in committing slow suicide at the hands of a mind that thinks it can only live with the aid of a powerful stimulant? What do they call someone who derives pleasure from self-inflicted harm or who slowly puts themselves to death? Pick your own label! Which nicotine fix out of the last 5,000 was the one that brought you tremendous pleasure? Which cigarette out of the next 5,000 may be the one that sparks permanent damage or disease, or that carries death's eternal flame? If bad news arrives tomorrow will "pleasure" cross your mind? Your only pleasure is in postponing the challenge of the initial 72 hours that it takes to remove all nicotine from your blood. |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #31 | ||
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If I quit, I'll just start back again. I always do. - The truth is that you don't have to relapse. We relapse because we rewrite the law of addiction, we forget why we quit, or we invent lies and stupid excuses, such as those that fill this page. Your next quit can be your last but you need to learn how to care for your quit, while always applying the only rule that you'll ever need to obey - NEVER TAKE ANOTHER PUFF OF NICOTINE! |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #32 | ||
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Quitting causes weight gain and it's just as dangerous - Quitting doesn't increase our weight, eating does. As far as a few extra
pounds being "dangerous," you'd have to gain over one
hundred additional pounds in order to equal the health risks associated with smoking one pack a day. Keep in mind that your general health, physical
abilities and lung capacity will all improve dramatically. If patient, you will have the physical and mental tools necessary to shed any extra pounds.
Remember, smoking was your cue that a meal had ended. Unless you develop a new cue there may be fewer leftovers.
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JoeJFree Gold |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #33 | ||
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I get bored. It helps pass the time - Tobacco does not control any clock on earth but it does control you. For the pack a day nicotine smoker it takes about 30 minutes before their blood's nicotine level to drop to the point where their mind sends them an "urge" of discomfort to remind you that it's time for a feeding. It doesn't matter where they are or what they're doing. Depending upon your daily nicotine requirements, the voice inside your head will let you know when it's time. All you're doing when bored is being alert enough to what lies ahead, so that you keep topping off your nicotine tank before the next message of discomfort arrives. |
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #34 | ||
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I enjoy smoking - The difference between heroin and nicotine is that one chemical delivers a tremendous high while the other is far more
addictive. Studies have long ranked nicotine as a more addictive substance than
either heroin or cocaine. Cocaine's generally recognized addiction rate among regular users is 15% while nicotine's is over 70%. Imagine convincing
your mind that it "likes" being addicted to the drug
that most addiction scientists now rank as the most addictive substance on earth. We are nicotine addicts. A pack a day smoker smokes 7,300 cigarettes each and every year. How many of your last 7,300 smokes did you really enjoy? How many of the next 7,300 will bring joy to your life? Isn't the true joy
of being a well fed nicotine addict in not having to feel the discomfort associated with withdrawal?
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Sal GOLD |
Nicodemon's Lies? | #35 | ||
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I like to smoke when I drink and I find myself smoking even more - The effects of drinking and stress upon our body's nicotine level are the same. You smoke more when you drink not because you "like" to but because you MUST in order to keep your body's nicotine level within the comfort range, so that it does not experience the symptoms of early withdrawal. When you drink alcohol it causes your urine to become acidic. The acid causes nicotine to be drawn from your blood at an accelerated rate. Thus, the more you drink, the more nicotine you'll need to ingest to avoid the anxiety of early withdrawal. Although early alcohol use contributes to destroying a great many quit attempts, understanding the nicotine-acid relationship can be of benefit in accelerating physical nicotine withdrawal so that quitters can begin feeling relief sooner. Acidic fruit juices, such as cranberry, may help reduce the normal 72 hours of withdrawal required to remove all nicotine from the blood. If at all possible, don't drink during the first few days of your quit. When you do decide to drink, consider drinking at home without cigarettes around before testing your resolve around smokers. By doing so you'll help to break the your mind's psychological link between smoking and drinking, with as little risk as possible. As millions of ex-smokers can attest, your beer or drinks will taste better than ever once your taste buds are allowed an opportunity to heal. |
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CrystalView2 |
Near and Still Dear! | #38 | ||
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Katie - Free and Healing for Four Years, Seven Months, Fourteen Days, 12 Hours and 15 Minutes, while extending my life expectancy 117 Days and 4 Hours, by avoiding the use of 33750 nicotine delivery devices that would have cost me $5,430.43. |
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