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Fly n (Silver) |
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I found sneezing helped. Well not so much the sneezing as trying to make my self sneeze. If you are have a tough time with your quit right now sneeze. Ah
Chew! No a real sneeze. Concentrate as hard as you can on sneezing. Use all your will power and make yourself sneeze. Okay! Now that you are distracted. The
urge for a smoke is gone. Let it go. It's over. The next urge will be less. Just distract yourself. I hear humming through your ears is tough.
LOL. Never take another puff.
Fly'n' -On Freedom.
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wannalife (gold) |
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Toast:
Thanks for the suggestion to read (and read some more)! These were great .... and
they helped me get to GREEN! Gee ... I must be excited ... I keep telling everyone.
Thankful to be here and vow to get through this day without taking a puff.
wannalife is proud to say .... free and clean and nicotineless for 1M 2D 1m 20 s; 660 cigs. not smoked ...
$132.00 saved Time to go shopping!
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Joel |
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Joel |
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Quit Smoking Tip Sheet
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John (Gold) |
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Lots of wonderful stress breakers and aids here Jay Girl!
Also slow deep deep breathing while you clear your mind of all needless chatter and relax as you focus your concentration on your favorite color, object or
person. Just a simple break from everything the underlying current of anxiety that many feel during early withdrawal. Cold water too !!!! You're
doing great!
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Jerm (Gold) |
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If all else fails, I just hold on until it's time to go to bed. Once in bed and sleeping I don't have anything to worry about because that is 8
hours of not smoking in the bag, no problem!!! Didn't even have to try to not smoke for that 8 hours.
Good Times
Jerm
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Jay Girl |
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Thank you for the tip John. I feel so good! Today is day 7. I have never had such resolve about anything in my life. I believe the
reason is, I feel I am saving my life --- Literally. I am really looking so forward to the day that cigs do not pop into my head every 30 minutes. But the
crave only last a minute. I have been taking deep breaths and blowing the hair out my mouth. This seems to always work. Hang in there everyone, and never
take another puff. Have a great smoke free day.
Jay Girl
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lenguatron (green) |
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Great tips!!! When I saw the picture of the raspberries, I remembered one thing I tried that was
delightfully effective: One day at the grocery store, during my quit, on a whim I bought a $3 half pint of raspberries. Pretty indulgent for the produce
section.
After I had long been home and those pretty berries were on my refridgerator shelf, I had an intense crave and decided
to open the fridge. I saw those berries and smiled, decadently.
Not only did the berries distract me, killing my crave, they made me feel victorious over my
crave.
I enjoyed every one of those berries more than I've probably ever enjoyed a berry in my life! Imagine how much more
delightful a fresh raspberry is than a nasty, stale sickarette (I love that word! So much more accurate.)
So my suggestion is this: next time you're at the grocery store, or the gas station, or wherever you bought your
little cancer demons, take the money you would have spent making your life miserable with a pack of sickarettes and spend it on something indulgent--a box of
berries, a magazine, a toy, you name it!
You'll look at the thing you bought and LOVE that you got it instead of a pack.
Your newbie quit sister,
Mary
(Indulgently enjoying 3 weeks, 1 day, 8 hours, 42 minutes of fresh, sweet life!)
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OBob Gold |
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Aha! I wondered what ever happened to my little list of relaxation / crave coping techniques. Knew it must have gotten moved, but never knew where to until
now. ANYhoo, I'll add the following:
Sometimes a crave can become worse when I let it frighten me. If I turn away from it, and fear it's power. Because, at the end of the day, I think when
you do this, you give power to the crave. A crave often ISN'T really that powerful, if you have the courage to stare it down.
Acknowledge it. Set it down in front of you. Ask yourself, what is this really? Do I really CRAVE a cigarette? Or is this just anxiety, and I remember
how anxiety used to cause my nicotine level to drop, and how feeding my body more nicotine used to offset the withdrawals? How long is this lasting? Heck,
count the seconds. 1...2....3....4...28...29.....am I still feeling like I was 30 seconds ago? Is it better? Worse? If I simply denied it, would it still
be here in 5 minutes? How strong is it? If I rate this feeling, at this second, how does it compare with the one I had yesterday at 2pm on a 1-10 scale?
How many 10s have I had over the past 24 hours. What other answers can I come up with to deal with this anxiety attack, if that's what it is?
What I tend to discover is that it's not as bad as my junky wants to pretend it is. It doesn't last as long as my junky wants to pretend it's
going to. And, when I really think about it, I DON'T WANT TO SMOKE; but my junky remembers that that alleviated a different kind of anxiety before, and
hasn't learned that anxiety comes from all different types of places (not just nicotine withdrawal), and that there are other ways to deal with this
anxiety.
Nicotine's effect on withdrawal is like the effect you have when you put a large log on a campfire. When you first put the log on, the fire dims, and
smolders. But a few minutes later, it's raging again. Logs don't put out fires -- they feed them -- ditto nicotine and withdrawal.
Okay, enough of this. I can see I'm starting to go off on tangents again....
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GrumpyOMrsS (Gold) |
Freedom's Best Crave Coping Tips ! | #50 | |||||
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Roger (Gold) |
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As I have stated in a couple of my posts my quit this time has been very easy for me. I did have some cravings but not the ones I had
anticipated prior in my mind. None the less I did have cravings but not as many or not as intense as most experience. A few come to my mind, mostly within
the first week or so that were intense enough for me to remember.
Getting to the point, (something I haven't mastered my whole life) I would use my mind to create an atmosphere that was pleasant
for me, where I never smoked. In my mind I would re-live that experience from the start to however long my crave went. My favorite pastime is Fly Fishing
for Steelhead. These fish can exceed 20-30 pounds. They are nothing but rainbow trout that migrate to the ocean after a couple years in the rivers and
spend 2 or 3 years in the ocean and come back to the rivers to spawn. Since I know exactly how these fish take a fly, I would imagine my line shooting out in
the current, mending the line once and steering my line through the drift. Towards the end of the drift as the fly starts to slow and just kind of hang there
I feel the tug of a fish taking the fly. This can be as gentle as could be or very aggressive. My line would tighten and this large fish would drift to the
surface, not sure what was happening to it. As it realized it was not free anymore it would begin its struggle to set itself free. There is nothing in the
world that compares to the fight of one of these fish. I would feel every run, visualize every jump and splash. To land one of these fish usually takes
between 15 and 30 minutes or so. I visualized landing this creature and slipping the hook from its mouth. I would admire its beauty and let it slip from my
hand back into the depths of the river where it emerged from.
This type of mental relaxation worked for me every time. Possibly it may help someone the same as me. Let me know sometime.
Roger
Loving my quit more and more each passing day.
I have chosen not to smoke for
2 Months 1 Week 5 Days 13 Hours 29 Minutes 57 Seconds.
Cigarettes not smoked: 2862. Money saved: $466.59.
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John (Gold) |
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Wow Roger, talk about bringing back old memories. I did a post at about two months into my quit that Joanne or Benita (the real real oldbies, lol) may
recall, about a crave and a fish. I'm going to pause right here and see if I can find in my puter - this is toooooo much! BRB...
I take it back, Roger, my memory of my early quit is getting terrible! I found it but my quit stats were attached and they indicate that it was made during
my second week. Anyway, see if this doesn't ring a bell. By the way, the fish was a sea trout! For you newbies, we no longer use the candy coated
word "slip" at Freedom. We call it what it is - RELAPSE! What I find astonishing is that we were both thinking about fishing during our early
craves! That's wild!!!
I'm not worried about you slipping Molly and you know why. Yes, you said it, you've been one of the strongest amongst us and you just want to be a giver. Your sudden cry for help with victory so close reminds me of that seven pound trout I caught last March. When it first hit my hook, all hell broke loose. As it came out of the water and danced on its tail across the marsh inlet, I was sure I was going to lose it. But I didn't Molly. Still, the fight to the boat wasn't easy, but the pace was fairly steady. I felt its fight was starting to wane. I dipped and reeled and dipped and reeled some more. After about twenty minutes of slow going, the beauty at the end of my hook finally approached the boat. I could now see her vastness about 4 feet down, silhouetted against the whiteness of the oyster bed below. Just as I though the long battle over, and victory mine, the tip of my pole doubled over and my line started screaming. Yes, Molly, my prize below was giving its all in one last energy draining fight for survival. Sort of like ole' nicodemus is doing to you now. But like you Molly, I held on tight as it fought with every ounce of its remaining energy, and then, yes Molly, the prize was mine. Well sort of - it was far to beautiful a fish to keep, it won my respect and my heart, and hopefully still glides gracefully through the waters of the Isle of Palms. Hold on tight Molly . Breathe deep, hug hard, and live long. We're beside you if ya need us. Zep.
I have not smoked for 1W 5D 10h 21m 32s, have skipped 621 cigs, have saved $85.46, and now faces the dilemma of having to figure out how to spend an extra 2D
3h 45m of life. In the garden, I think.
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Roger (Gold) |
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John,
Maybe it is a guy thing. The fishing I mean. An associate where I work, who just happens to be a lady, and who happens to have been
quit for 3 years, related this same kind of story to me not long ago. She asked me how I initially coped with my craves. I
told her this fishing story and how I relived this passion every crave. She broke into a small chuckle and told me when she was quitting she would always
vision herslef and her husband having sex all the time. It was very relazing to her as well as very sensual with her mate. She said it worked great until
the end. She continued with a smile and said, I had to end this daydream always short of completion because at the end of good sex I always craved a
cigarette. I never asked her if she was serious or joking. having smoked for 35 plus years and having been married 30 years this Sept, I just took her word
for it. I guess it all boils down to one thing,
However one deals with the craves and it works for them is the main issue in this thread.
Roger
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murphying (Gold) |
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I find I can kind of 'relax' into a crave - don't quite know how to describe it...kind of like smiling right in it's face!! Maybe I should
try that fishing one - this is for Roger and John..
Ingrid
2 Months 1 Week 4 Days 20 Hours 9 Minutes 54 Seconds.
Money saved NZ$1,505.35. Cigarettes not smoked 3542. Self esteem 100%
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OBob Gold |
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Trinity River. Northern California. Steelhead. W/O Smoke. Phenominal!
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NevadaGal Gold |
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This is for Jebels, and sinceI am here I will post my favorite tips also...
I am still 'forgetting' I quit... It usually only takes a reminder to myself (and I make sure this reminder does not become a debate, I keep it an
affirmation!)
If a quick reminder does not work, I go outside and scream as loud as I can for as long as I can and when I am done I feel out of breath, light headed and my
throat is sore... just like if I had smoked a cigarrette! Of course this is without any of the long term effects. (I live in the country where no
one will call the police because of blood curdling screams coming from a neighbors house every 30 minutes or so : ).
One of my favorite ways to deal with a crave is to take a deep whiff off my clothes and smell the springy freshness... (this is not quite as noticable to the
neighbors, and does not wear a person out after the fourth or fifth time in a day!) (I read this off another post and thought it was a great idea!)
Another one that works for me even though I do not like Metallica. I went to a pawn shop and bought Metallica - Master of Puppets CD and when a crave is
intense (feels like you want to bang your head on something) I throw in the head banging music and listen to the title track. It is a song about addiction
and really speaks to me about who I have been for the last ten years (a puppet) and what my relationship to cigarrettes have been (my master).
Rachel
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katieque (silver) |
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I just incorporated a new technique yesterday that really seems to help me. When I'm driving and see another smoker which I now seem so much more aware
of, I take a deep breath and say "Ahhhh much better" The fresh air, even if I'm behind a bus is so much better than the carbon monoxide.
nicotine and all the other garbage I was putting in before. Simple but effective for me.
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Rickgoldx5 |
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This may seem a little strange but when I start getting a little crave I remember
a insentdent that I witnessed when I was 1 week smoke free; My wife and I were
sitting in a resturant in the no smoking section. I looked out the window and across the street is a sandwich shop. As I was looking a young women came out
looking like she worked there. (she had on an apron) She proceeded to light up a smoke.
She must have stood out there for 5min. when a person I think was her boss comes out and pointed at the cigerette talking too her. She throws down the smoke
and angrly starts walking back into the building!
Her boss pointed at her and then at the ground said something to her, then she bent over and picked up her butt she threw down by the door, and walked
inside.
About 15 minutes she came back out and had her jacket on with her purse in her hand and walked off mad!
I told my wife she probely got fired for smoking on the job. Thats when I told my wife how insane it was to do that when you know its against the rules! She
looked at me and said "Theres no doubt in my mind, that would have been you a week ago!"
I looked at her and smiled! What I wouldn't do to feed my addiction!!
Rick
I have chosen not to smoke for 1 Month 1 Week 3 Hours 38 Minutes 7 Seconds. Cigarettes not smoked: 2403. Money saved: $359.33.
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Slycat |
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Hi John...
My Techniques for Coping when that Crave Comes Along???
O.K... Here we go...
Rub-offs like Crosswords, Crossword Puzzles, Playing games in ther internet, bingo,
any kind of game to keep my mind off of things...
Hot Chocolate or Hot Tea... It Feels Good Going Down...
Watching TV... Always Deverts my mind...
Judy
(7+ weeks)
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bestmorris |
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Hi,
The best tip I have so far to cope with cravings is to write about it and read post and articles that make you understand how the addiction works and the
symptoms and so on.
But when I cannot read or write, I try using my mind as time machine: I go back and forward in time.
NEVER TAKE ANOTHER PUFF! also helps me.
See you
just
Quit for: 3 Days 14 Hours 43 Minutes 36 Seconds. I have NOT smoked 65 cigarettes, for a savings of €16.65. Life Saved: 5 Hours 25 Minutes.
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